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Suicide by N7-Commander Suicide by N7-Commander
I know I'm going to be hated for this but really, I believe that it can be selfish, yes I understand if you have cancer or some other shit but most of the time, it can be.

For instance, this is what I'd consider selfish:
Bitch-bitch no iPod/iPhone/iPad
Child doesn't get electronics
Child is grounded and has shit taken away
Child is constantly watched by parent
Parent won't let kid hang out with buds
Not feeling worthy anymore
Feeling unsuccessful
Lover breaks up with you
Lover cheats on you
Bullies (if you commit suicide over a bully, you might as well be considered a fucking pussy)
Rape

I could fucking go on but you should get the idea, I understand if you have cancer or some other disease but honestly, you can't let things get to you, and committing suicide won't make things better, it'll only make things worse, not just for you but for the people around you, people love you and just don't okay.

Wow, I felt a bit emotional while writing this, I even almost cried lol.
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tabbi1994 Featured By Owner Apr 8, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Like, I don't care about the people I would leave behind...I would be dead, gone!!! I can't see them suffer.
Death, for me, is one of the only things in our world we can control.
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yoyomrpurrz Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2015
"I know I'm going to be hated for this but really, I believe that it can be selfish, yes I understand if you have cancer or some other shit but most of the time, it can be.

For instance, this is what I'd consider selfish:

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Not feeling worthy anymore

Feeling unsuccessful
Lover breaks up with you
Lover cheats on you
Bullies (if you commit suicide over a bully, you might as well be considered a fucking pussy)
Rape"
^
What in the actual fuck is wrong with you? Do you even know how human emotions work? Do you know what psychological damage is? Please fucking educate yourself and think before you speak.
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B-Galaxee Featured By Owner Feb 28, 2015
again with the (in the comments) ''at least ur nut starving kids in africa !!!''

Grow the FUCK UP, that's like saying if you don't live in third world countries, you've never experienced
pain
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fariygrrl Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2015
This is fucked up. If you don't know what it's like to hate life so much you want to die, don't pretend it's just something one can get over.
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Suicide is selfish, but at the same time it isn't. If someone's in great unbareable pain, and theres nothing and nobody left to live for, then they kill themselves because their sick of living. What if the person's entire family and all their friends have died in some freak accident? And they have nothing at all to live for? They kill themselves to end their lonely suffering, and sometimes to even be with their loved ones. It's a very painful thing to hear about.. Heartbreak is one of the main causes to suicide..
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NecromanticOwl Featured By Owner Aug 31, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I half agree, yet half disagree.
I don't believe people should have that much control / influence over someone's life, if they want to end it, it's their choice, no-one else can make that choice for them.
However, I believe it should be monitored, so, as you said, people can't go killing themselves over not having the technology-crap they want, but for just, proper reasons, like a terminal illness when they only have a set time to live, hell yes, let them, but perhaps offer some strong counseling or therapy beforehand.
If I ever have cancer or some other crippling illness that demolishes my quality of life, I'm sure as hell ending it on my own terms, after I talk to my family and closed friends so it's not such a shock to them.
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loudmouthedandbossy Featured By Owner Aug 25, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
You are a fucking piece of shit.
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mynameiswaifu Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2014
Cute.
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mellorox9 Featured By Owner Aug 24, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
okay I can NOT believe what I'm reading on some of these comments...

if you seriously think you have to be starving in Africa to have a bad life, you are incomprehensibly ignorant and you must have been having it way too easy. 
It's not always about money or being poor. There are plenty of things that can make a person feel this horrible. I think most people just don't really care that the person is upset, so they give them the "people are starving in Africa" bandaid so they don't have to deal with them. It's just lazy and unhelpful. 

And don't let rape get to you? Are you kidding me?
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fuckshiru Featured By Owner Jul 1, 2014   Digital Artist
Instead of killing yourself, kill whoever is giving you the problem.
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maturec0ntent Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2015
:iconthisplz:
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
LOL, yes. Yes you. :iconclapsplz: :iconyourockplz:
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fuckshiru Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014   Digital Artist
:iconwhoreplz:
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:iconyoplz:
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RiRiSqueak Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2014  Student Digital Artist
You under estimate what bullies do to lives
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IJustDontGetIt Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2014
dude.. I was bullied my whole life, and not just by students, also the teachers T_T
I think if I can survive torture from pretty much the whole school, I am sure any kid can survive an ass kicking from that one jerk..
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I see how you feel. My teacher bullied me in front of my entire class last year. He drew a picture of what was suppose to be me on the chalkboard, he made it purposely ugly and fat. The entire class laughed at me and pointed saying, "It looks just like you!". It hurt a lot.. It sickens me how this world works..
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IJustDontGetIt Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014
that's terrible :(
teacher's can be such bitches..

This one time, it was a lice epidemic and the teacher was like

"Ok now I want to make sure you all get your hair check and you don't have any lice... Especially you Alice...."

another time I yawned without covering my mouth ((mind you I was also talking))
and she was like

"How dare you do that! Cover your mouth when you yawn you filthy little girl.. Its obvious you were raise in a barn but don't bring your behaviour in front of my other students..."

lol and other stuff as well :p sounds like a twisted cartoon show... but this really did happen and the fact that it happen to you as well, you can understand the pain.
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Teachers are worse than students when it comes down to bullying. They can turn the entire school against you if they had the mind to.. They could even lie about what you've done just so you get kicked out of school. Of course the other teachers and the principal will believe lying teachers. Because their adults and adults never lie! BULLSHIT..
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RiRiSqueak Featured By Owner Jul 18, 2014  Student Digital Artist
everyone is different
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SpottedZebra1 Featured By Owner May 30, 2014  Hobbyist Filmographer
I think that if somebody kills themselves over not getting an iPhone or whatever, chances are they had something wrong with them anyway, or they were spoilt rotten their whole lives. I don't agree with suicide, and I do think it's selfish, and honestly I don't think there's a right or wrong answer to it because it's such a huge topic that goes off in so many directions. 
I hate bullying, and don't see the argument of 'Well if you're being cyber-bullied turn the computer off!' No, they should not have to turn the computer off because they should not be being cyber-bullied in the first place. I think that if you're being bullied at school or something and you don't tell a teacher or a parent, then you're not really helping yourself get through the bullying; but if you did tell the school and they did nothing about it, that's stupid. 
Generally, having the mind-set that something is selfless does not immediately make it so. There's so many wacked-up people who generally think that they are doing good things, but that doesn't make what they're doing any better. They're still bad people (I'm not comparing suicidal people to like, dictators or whatever, but that's the only example I could think of at the time). Likewise, if the suicidal person thinks they are doing a selfless act, it does not immediately make it one. I don't think it makes them selfish people, but I think it's a selfish act.
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wolfiedawolf Featured By Owner May 26, 2014  Student General Artist
Well nobody loves me...And i'm suicidal. But that's my life, I have lots of tough things to get through. And people can rant about this comment all they like, but you'll just have to live with it. Us suicidals have hurdles to get over, but sometimes those hurdles are just a little bit to high. Or they can be very high, depends on the problem. And suicide over bullies...Well, its happened. I once felt like sucide because of bullies, but they did a lot more than just...bully me. They posted stuff on the internet about me, that people could see. They posted something on a dating site once about me, and I got teased really badly at school. Suicidals don't do suicide for the fun of it, or to make people "Happy". They do it for an exit, instead of just standing there and letting people treat you like absolute bullshit. But thsi si just my opinion, so yeah...
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:C Nobody loves you? Aww.. Thats not true my friend! You see, everyone eventually finds friends, and even lovers. Theres always someone for everybody! Don't feel down, we've all been there. I have also been suicidal. Tried strangling myself with a phone cord.. Cut, everything. I don't want to go into further details, but you know what I mean. Would you like to be pals? :D
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wolfiedawolf Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Student General Artist
R-really? Thanks! However, life has just gotten worse for me. I feel like my friends hate me :( But I actually do feel quite better, especially after your speech :) And yes, I would LOVE to be pals with you! :D
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Aw I'm sorry to hear that :<
But don't worry! I can be the bestest friend ever! :D
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wolfiedawolf Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Student General Artist
YAAAAY! Bestest friend ever? CANT WAIT!! :D
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:D Do you have a KIK?

An app for an android phone or tablet thats free.

If you have an android cell phone or any smart phone with an app store, let me know! I'd be able to chat with you a lot there! :D
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wolfiedawolf Featured By Owner Sep 22, 2014  Student General Artist
No, I dont have a KIK

I dont have a tablet either XD
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 22, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh, that's okay! I check deviant art a lot so we can talk here. :D
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SecretAgent632 Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
"Suicide tax" for the families of people who commit suicide comes to mind. 
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Blackestfang Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I suffer with depression I would have a thought about stabbing myself with a knife while cleaning one while doing dishes then I slap myself for being stupid.
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CRACKCUTWITHSEMEN Featured By Owner Mar 19, 2014  Professional Traditional Artist
My mom committed suicide because my dad cut her alimony cash. :lol: 
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claworbu Featured By Owner Mar 7, 2014   Traditional Artist
I hate it when people commit suicide and they have loving parents/an iPad/a TV/heaps of friends/a laptop/pocket money more than most families' budgets/a house/food/water/education/medicine and more...
there are people in completely horrible living conditions, like in south africa for example, and yet these spoilt teenagers still commit suicide??? :stare:
people can be so ungrateful and selfish.

Can I make a stamp saying what you said in the description, committing suicide over bullies is being pussy? I just find that sentence so boss.
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N7-Commander Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2014  Professional
Some people commit suicide because of fear, poverty, bullying, etc.

Go ahead and use the description.
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PawsTheKitty Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You obviously do not know what it's like to be bullied if you say that killing yourself over bullying means you're a "pussy". I have been physically AND emotionally bullied. It isn't exactly a walk in the damn park. That is kind of insulting how you said something like that. How would you like it, if say for example: Your mom or best friend killed themselves and someone came up to you and said to your face, "Get over it pussy.". Would you like that? That's kinda how you're coming out.. I'm not trying to be rude or anything, just trying to reason and explain why people kill themselves.. A lot of people have low selfesteem.. Not everyone can be emotionally strong you know. Words hurt way worse.. They can pierce your soul like a knife. Please do not attack me.. I really don't want drama. I'm just stating my opinion on the matter. :iconsadfaceplz:
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Robbie-The-Frog Featured By Owner Feb 20, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I agree with all but the last two...I happen to be a victim of both and its not easy when both happen on more than one occasion...it's like a mental bomb goes off and destroys your sanity...just my experience...not hating, just trying to make a point... 
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MarlyTheMadHare Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I agree with you. I, thankfully, have not been a victim of either of these two things, but I understand your point of view. People really don't understand how someone can feel after being exposed to something like that, and although suicide is an extreme answer, sometimes it can seem like the only escape from something. 
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NeroLizard Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2014
The suicidal mind, which I understand in entirety because have I HAVE one, isn't RATIONAL in any way, shape, or form. Believe me. While it may seem selfish to you, a rational, to me when I have tried, I TRULY believed the world was better without me. When it happens, it SEEMS selfish to others who do not understand, but it is, in fact, completely selfless in the eyes of the suicider. Unless it's a suicide terrorist attack... I have no clue what's up with THAT.
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Wisp-Night Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I suppose I do agree with this to an extent. I mean, everything has it's limits, right?

A lot of people don't see the help because they're too busy looking through the threats. Pride, of course, is one of the major factors ~ , just below the hope that you'll stun the oppressor into silence with the gravity of the situation. 

However, this does walk on the fine line of assumption, which is the existence of family and friends, or that your family is a whole and generous one. I guess your first sentence can cover that little spot, but I don't think other users are taking the initiative to acknowledge it. 

I guess I find it a bit boring to browse comments saying basically the same thing (along with the counter-comments) just using some different situations ~ .
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Wisp-Night Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
*its (can't believe I messed this up when I even went back and checked it :shakefist:.)
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TheBIackCrown Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
    When you think about committing suicide, you're only thinking about yourself. So that is selfish. And the thing of "boo hoo no one caaaaaaares about me!!!" is really fucking stupid. There is always someone who cares about you, no matter if you believe it or not.
    Coming from a person who was totally suicidal because of my depression years ago, that should say something. Suicide is a bad way out. So is cutting.
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N7-Commander Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2014  Professional
Exactly, wish I could tell this to my friend, who lost count of how many times he attempted suicide.
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TheBIackCrown Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
    I've attempted suicide like twice, but then I got help and realized it wasn't a good idea. The people who say they can't find help are just fucking stupid, there is help everywhere. So it's not really an excuse.
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N7-Commander Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2014  Professional
It really isn't a good idea, and I never attempted it myself.
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Traxxious Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Ha! I attempted suicide so much I lost track.
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TheBIackCrown Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
    every 1 hates me ....life is ...so hard.....*kills self*
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Traxxious Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
=P
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TheBIackCrown Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
    ;)
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legoland5254 Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2014
wow.... when you put bullies on that list it reminded me of an actual kid who committed suicide over bullies.......

but that's my homepage for the internet, and it ALWAYS says someone died
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confusedmockingjay Featured By Owner Dec 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist

If you really think that, let me ask you something.


Do you know what it's like to think about killing yourself everytime you see a window, rope, or gun? To be afraid that everyone else hates you and that no one will ever love you? To cry all the time over little things because that's all it takes to push you off the edge? To be afraid of killing someone else? It feels like a living hell when you don't even like your own mind. And I'll probably get called Emo for this but I don't give a crap. I wanted to kill myself at the age of 10, and if that's screwed up to me.


Depression and Anxiety are disorders and should be treated as such. And while I do agree with the fact that Suicide doesn't make it better, and that it hurts others too, saying that someone is selfish for feeling suicidal isn't going to help.

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